metal : refactor kernel loading code (#4794)

* metal : detect more GPU families

* metal : refactor kernel loading

* metal : set kernel family requirements

* metal : fix kernel init + fix compile options

* metal : take into account simdgroup reduction support

* metal : print only skipped kernels

* metal : fix check for simdgroup reduction support

* metal : check for Metal 3

* metal : free allocations

* metal : normalize encoder:setComputePipelineStatus calls

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* metal : fix Metal3 family check

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* metal : check for simdgroup matrix mul. feature

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